RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS – HOW TO BUILD MENTAL STRENGTH POST BREAKUP

We all face relationship problems with ourselves and others. For me, the hardest of all the relationship problems to tackle has been building my mental strength after a breakup. Resisting the temptation to reach out, stalk, obsess, “get answers to,” etc., has always been difficult impossible for me to do. Even to this day,  guys I swear – I’m … Continue Reading

THANKFUL.

I hope that all of you who celebrate Thanksgiving had a wonderful day yesterday and are having a great holiday weekend so far! For this post and the next one that I’m posting this weekend, we’re going to talk about the holidays. I could write an entire book on how to survive the holidays when you’re heartbroken, dealing … Continue Reading

WHEN YOU SEE THE GHOST OF YOUR EX BOYFRIEND EVERYWHERE

Since it’s Halloween weekend, let’s talk about ghosts… Even if you haven’t heard of “ghosting,” you’ve definitely ghosted or been ghosted some, a few, infinity times. Urban Dictionary defines ghosting as: “The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone that the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date. This is done in hopes that the ghostee will just … Continue Reading

IS HE HAPPIER WITHOUT ME? IS HE A BETTER GUY WITH HER?

After a breakup and beyond, the “Is he happier without me?” and “Is he a better guy with her?” wonderings inevitably creep into the minds of even the most boundary’d, confidant and put together girls. Why? Because you’re human; because you’re dealing with the loss of something that mattered, the death of hope, the death of … Continue Reading

WHEN YOUR EX STARTS DATING. WHY HER? WHY NOT YOU?

There are so many girls out there whose family, friends, sorority sisters, plastic surgeon, brother’s ex girlfriend, first grade teacher, every ex boyfriend they ever had (that’s on social media), third cousin’s prom date, wacky aunt, hot step brother, job, diet, workout regime, most used Instagram filter, favorite drink, dog, cat, etc. I used to … Continue Reading

ARE THERE ANY GOOD GUYS LEFT? HOW DO YOU FIND ONE?

Even though you may be like I used to be and live as the unnecessary, “could-really-do-without-her,” character in the story that is your life, you are always the only main, recurring character in your story as the supporting characters and guest stars come and go. You’re the main character that will be in every scene … Continue Reading