WHY DO I MISS HIM? THE ONE THING YOU NEED TO KNOW

“Why do I miss him?” is something that I’ve continued to ask myself WAY after relationsh*ts have ended and breakups ensued. I’d even find myself wondering “why do I miss him (??!)” when I’d be on a date – sitting across from a totally nice guy in a beautiful restaurant; my mind thousands of miles … Continue Reading

MAKING AN EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT: WHEN TO INVEST & WHEN TO FOLD

Emotional investment seems like the most no-brainer, autopilot investment because it comes from the heart. If we aren’t self aware, we buy into the bullsh*t that “what our heart wants,” is in no way convoluted by our negative belief system, childhood, un-dealt-with trauma, insecurities, triggers and fears. So what do we do? Approve the investment and go … Continue Reading

A PRIVATE LIFE IS A HAPPY LIFE: 5 REASONS TO KEEP YOUR PRIVATE LIFE PRIVATE

A private life is a happy life. Seriously. The older I get, the more I’m able to appreciate the value of privacy, without the associated guilt I used to feel about implementing it. A private life is a happy life because as the respect that you have for your own privacy increases, the drama, bad luck, bullsh*t & insecurity in your … Continue Reading

HOW TO FIND HAPPINESS

how to find happiness – another phrase that my hands are so used to typing in the Gooogle search box, I could do it blindfolded at light speed. It’s one thing to sit in front of a computer, read my blog posts, find your head nodding in agreement, empathize, make new connections, “aha’s!” and gain a new understanding. Maybe … Continue Reading