IS MY RELATIONSHIP TOXIC? 10 SIGNS OF A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

A toxic relationship is the most annoying relationship to be in and not for the obvious reasons you’re thinking. Determining whether a relationship is toxic is or not pretty easy and straightforward. As long as it’s not our relationship that’s under the scope. “Being emotionally invested in a toxic relationship” should be an alternative definition … Continue Reading

HOW TO STOP YOUR EMOTIONAL TRIGGERS FROM GETTING THE BEST OF YOU

We all have emotional triggers. As my good friend, David Kessler once told me, when it comes to emotional triggers… “It’s not who and what pushes your buttons. It’s who and what programmed you.” When we feel like someone has taken something from us that we’re dependent on for an emotional identity and survival OR, if we feel like … Continue Reading

HOW TO STOP SEEKING VALIDATION & LIVE LIFE ON YOUR TERMS

I cringe when I think about the amount of time I’ve wasted in my life, obsessing and humiliating myself on an endless quest for validation. Trying to figure out how to stop seeking validation was always impossible because at every moment, there was someone who I was convinced – if I just worked a little harder and gave … Continue Reading

ALMOST RELATIONSHIPS: WHAT THEY MEAN & HOW TO LET GO

As I write this post, I’m on my couch and it’s currently 1999. I’ve got Brandy’s, Almost Doesn’t Count playing throughout my house, I’m wearing my old Abercrombie sweatpants and an ex boyfriend’s old high school sweatshirt that I found in my closet. All that’s missing is a Capri Sun instead of my mint tea. I wanted to write … Continue Reading