HOW TO STOP HATING YOURSELF – ESPECIALLY AFTER A BREAKUP

“How To Stop HATING Yourself…” Whoa. Slow down. The title of this post sounds harsh to me no matter how many times I read it. We grow up being told how hate is this strong, destructive, can’t-take-back, divisive and all-around wrong emotion to carry and channel toward others. The devastating, “need-not-engage-in” consequences of hate, however, … Continue Reading

NO CONTACT RULE: HOW TO MAKE IT 1000 TIMES EASIER & MORE EFFECTIVE

The no contact rule is something that we’re all familiar with post-breakup. I hate referring to it as a “rule,” because it just adds to this stigma of feeling more like a formulaic prison sentence that has to be applied for some desired “result,” rather than what it truly is: Something that anyone with a … Continue Reading

THE BEST BREAKUP SONGS TO GET YOU FROM FEELING EMPTY TO EMPOWERED

I’ve been getting asked a lot about what the best breakup songs are and what’s on my heartbreak/sucks for you/over it/f*ck you/I need to wallow in this for a while/I miss you/You’re moving on and I’m left in the dust/I’m moving on better, badder and stronger than ever, playlist (if that makes sense? Ha). The … Continue Reading

WHEN YOUR EX WANTS YOU BACK… WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

When your ex wants you back… Before I even begin, I want to say that this post DOES NOT ¬†just apply to romantic relationships. This applies to friendships, familial relationships and professional relationships as well. This applies to any and everyone who was on the receiving end of heartbreak, betrayal, disrespect, selfishness, etc., and is … Continue Reading