HOW TO GET OVER YOUR EX (& STOP WAITING AROUND) IN 10 STEPS

How to get over your ex is something that I could write a million blog posts on and still not be done. Why, because it’s so complicated? Not at all. It’s because after a breakup, when you’re trying to figure out how to get over your ex, there are so many emotions, triggers, insecurities, questions, old wounds … Continue Reading

REVENGE ON AN EX: HOW TO GET IT & STAY CLASSY IN THE PROCESS

Revenge on an ex: We’ve all thought about it and we’ve all gone there. It’s that thing that keeps us going in between the pain contractions after a breakup. If you have a ton of crap on your ex and you know you could ruin him with one push of a “send” button or you find yourself continually fantasizing … Continue Reading

RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS – HOW TO BUILD MENTAL STRENGTH POST BREAKUP

We all face relationship problems with ourselves and others. For me, the hardest of all the relationship problems to tackle has been building my mental strength after a breakup. Resisting the temptation to reach out, stalk, obsess, “get answers to,” etc., has always been difficult impossible for me to do. Even to this day,  guys I swear – I’m … Continue Reading

HOW TO BE “THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY” INSTEAD OF “THE CRAZY PSYCHO EX”

In every relationship fantasy of mine, I am always “the one that got away” after a breakup. Always. Even after years have passed, (in my mind) I’m still remembered by my exes as “the irreplaceable gem,” that slipped right through the cracks; the girl that he “really screwed it up with,” and the one relationship that he … Continue Reading

ACCEPTANCE AND MOVING ON AFTER HEARTBREAK

One of the hardest most impossible things to master is acceptance and moving on from anything that didn’t go your way, let alone when your heart is broken and you’re left to pick up the pieces while being surrounded (read: sometimes purposefully surrounding yourself), with everything that further emphasizes your emptiness, grief and that he’s just plain happier without … Continue Reading

SURVIVING THE HOLIDAYS AFTER A BREAKUP

It’s that really beautiful but f*cked up time of year again where, if you don’t have healthy boundaries, if you’re fresh off a breakup, if you’re in a relationship, single, have family drama or just have blood pumping through your veins, you’re literally on the world’s most, just-shoot-me-now marathon of anxiety, insecurity, missing him, feeling perpetually uncomfortable, question … Continue Reading