“Why do I miss him?” is something that I’ve continued to ask myself WAY after relationsh*ts have ended and breakups ensued. I’d even find myself wondering “why do I miss him (??!)” when I’d be on a date – sitting across from a totally nice guy in a beautiful restaurant; my mind thousands of miles away.
Even worse… I’d wonder “why do I miss him?” when I was IN A RELATIONSHIP with someone new.
Someone who had no idea how unfinished my emotional business truly was.
So, I acquiesced to an existence of someone at the end of their emotional life – always reverting back to the loss of my soulmate, “the one.” My only shot at Happily Ever After that had come and gone.
What do you do when you can’t breakup with your memory?
How do you deal with going through the motions of life while your heart is with someone that never gave you closure?