some time days/weeks/months/years have passed, we’ve all been there and we’ve all wondered: “Is my ex over me?”
You know you shouldn’t care… you don’t really care… but you do, but not in that way, but… whatever. You just
want need to know.
I always have a laugh when I see “quizzes” and “lists” online that prey on vulnerable, validation and safety seeking hearts that just want to know, “is my ex over me?” The truth is, your ex may be dating someone new, popping bottles at the club, not acknowledging your existence at all and still not be over you. So, if you’ve found yourself depressed after not being able to check anything off of a “is my ex over me?” list/quiz, don’t worry. Just like an illness that could be lying dormant and not yet producing any physical symptoms, “is my ex over me?” is a little more complicated than the obvious physical signs of someone not being over you.
Even after I had moved on from relationships in the past, I’ve always wondered at some point, “Is my ex over me?” “Is he struggling as much as I am after the breakup or is it just me that’s still on ocd-FBI-unable-to-move-on, sh*tbat banshee mode?”
You too? Awesome. Let’s break it down…