Ignoring an emotionally unavailable man can feel harder than having to ignore someone who is emotionally available. You’re more unhappy than you are happy and feel like you can’t move on after this breakup. You don’t know what to do because deep down, your gut knows that he isn’t right for you. It’s awful because you’ve seen him be so amazing. At times, you’ve seen him be everything that you want.
You are convinced that there must be something wrong with you that you need to work on because why else would this have happened? You may have heard from him since the breakup. You may have heard a ton of excuses and “this will never happen again.” But you know that you need to move on.
Is ignoring an emotionally unavailable man the only way to move on?
First, you need to understand that obsessing over and missing anyone who doesn’t recognize your worth is like crying because you took a crap and now you have to say goodbye to it and flush. That’s how ridiculous it is.
“He knows that he’ll never get better than me. He’s just going through a lot right now.” Really?
Do you know when a man realizes that he actually can’t do better? The moment you realize how much better YOU can do. Continue Reading