HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK & START LIVING YOUR LIFE

How to stop caring what people think, is something that I’ve tried to figure out my entire life. Growing up, I’d always fantasize about some day in the future when I bought/became/accomplished/dated x, y & z and THEN, I’d finally get to feel great about myself with no more f*cks to give about what anyone thought. But like … Continue Reading

DADDY ISSUES: 15 SIGNS YOU MAY HAVE THEM & WHY

Let’s talk Daddy Issues. For a while now, I’ve wanted to post a photo of my parents and title the blog post “A Photo of Everyone I’ve Ever Dated.” I’m not sure about that exact approach, but I’m definitely going to write a post about dating versions of our parents soon because it’s one of … Continue Reading

WHY I USED TO BE A NARCISSIST & WHY YOU MAY BE ONE TOO

This is the last post in a 3-part series of posts on Narcissism. In part 1, we established what a narcissist is, in part 2 we discussed the difference between an emotionally unavailable and a narcissist and now, in part 3… I want to discuss my own narcissism (yes, you heard right) – why I was a … Continue Reading

WHY YOU END UP GOING FROM “GIRLFRIEND” TO “MOMMY” IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP

So here’s how it would go: I’d start dating a guy that came into my life on his white horse, took charge, made my heart skip beats and I’d gush to all my friends about how in love I was and how amazing he was and blah blah. Fast forward a few weeks/months into the … Continue Reading

WHY WE TIE OUR WORTH TO THE ACTIONS OF OTHERS

EXCERT FROM WHAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN THE COVER LETTER OF MY RESUME UNTIL VERY RECENTLY: “Hi, my name is Natasha and from birth to the present year, I have attained a doctorate in my extremely low self-esteem and a highly refined ability to tie whatever anyone does and says to my worth and how I feel … Continue Reading