HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF

shop my style + Top (c/o Aryn K.) | SUNGLASSES | JEANS | SHOES A little known fact about me that’s contrary to how I have always tried so hard to come across… I have loved myself for a painfully small fraction of the time that I have been lucky enough to to live on this planet.

GET YOUR HAPPINESS BACK PERMANENTLY AFTER A BAD BREAKUP

Once upon a time, there was a young, naive 21-year-old college student named Natasha who met a tall, dark and handsome, nationally ranked, big-deal college athlete that was everything she had ever dreamed of wanting and more. He was her first big encounter with the f*cktard species, with emotional unavailability, assholery and all around avoidant, tell-her-what-she-wants-to-hear-just-to-pacify-her-for-now, promise-her-a-furture-together, who-cares-how-I-treat-her-I-know-she’ll-just-blame-herself-and-I-can-continue-to-use-her, … Continue Reading

WHY YOU ONLY FEEL THAT ‘ONCE-IN-A-LIFETIME’ PASSION WITH THE WRONG GUYS

Passion. You’ve read about it, you’ve fantasized about it, you may have even felt it with that one guy – the one that got away – or maybe just a few times and now you want it again. You’re sad because you had it so good with him and now you’re convinced that you’ll never find it again. … Continue Reading

WHAT “I’M SORRY” AND “I FORGIVE YOU” REALLY MEAN

Accepting the words “I’m sorry” and understanding true forgiveness have always been really tricky (“tricky” meaning impossible) things for me. Forgiveness always seemed like something other people could achieve; never me. It was something that I just couldn’t grapple. I would say “I forgive you” because I wanted to be like Oprah. I wanted to … Continue Reading