HOW TO FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR FALLING OFF YOUR WHITE HORSE

One of the most popular posts I’ve written here on PMS was about what to do when you fall off your white horse and break no contact. For months, I have been wanting to write a post that expands on both that one and the one my Mom wrote – about where your white horse … Continue Reading

SHAME VS GUILT: HOW TO GET OUT OF THE WEB & SAVE YOUR EMOTIONAL LIFE

Shame vs guilt is tricky. Some say the differences are obvious – that one is good and the other is bad. Many institutions, cults, organizations, parental figures from your childhood, teachers, coaches, friends, family, romantic partners, and even some religions use these two powerful emotions to your disadvantage without you even knowing it. Once they can … Continue Reading

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTES & RULES TO LIVE BY IN THE NEW YEAR

For this New Year’s post, I wanted to bring back my best friend and greatest teacher: My Mom, Tarane. My Mom came up with the concept of the white horse and wrote a very personal guest post a few months back about where the white horse resides. We have been wanting to collaborate on a post together for a … Continue Reading

HOW TO TRUST AGAIN AFTER HEARTBREAK, LIES & BETRAYAL

A few weeks ago, I wrote a post – How to Be Happy Again After Being Cheated On. But what about trust? How do you even begin to rebuild a foundation that without its solidity, true love and happiness cannot exist? How do you reroute the circuitry that now automatically directs you to second-guessing before … Continue Reading