I HAVE NO FRIENDS: WHY THIS ISN’T NECESSARILY A BAD THING

“I have no friends.” I’ve said this to myself countless times, even when I had friendships in my life. I felt lonely, misunderstood and never felt like I had a friend that gave or was willing to give and do for me what I would always so willingly give/do at the drop of a dime. … Continue Reading

10 GUARANTEED WAYS TO MESS UP YOUR LIFE & YOUR LUCK

I used to have a PhD in “how to mess up your life and luck.” I was the Triple-Crown-Champion-Jedi-master. There are SO many more ways than 10 to mess up your life and guarantee misery, failure and a magnetic pull toward bad luck (for yourself and others), but I want to share with you the … Continue Reading

HOW TO STOP SEEKING VALIDATION & LIVE LIFE ON YOUR TERMS

I cringe when I think about the amount of time I’ve wasted in my life, obsessing and humiliating myself on an endless quest for validation. Trying to figure out how to stop seeking validation was always impossible because at every moment, there was someone who I was convinced – if I just worked a little harder and gave … Continue Reading

GASLIGHTING IN RELATIONSHIPS: 7 SIGNS + HOW TO PUT OUT THE FLAME

I didn’t even know what gaslighting in relationships meant until recently. Gaslighting is something that I’ve experienced many times in romantic relationships, friendships, familial relationships and in business. I’ve touched on aspects of gaslighting before, but was unfamiliar with the terminology until a few weeks ago when I couldn’t sleep and starting watching the classic … Continue Reading