MAKING AN EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT: WHEN TO INVEST & WHEN TO FOLD

Emotional investment seems like the most no-brainer, autopilot investment because it comes from the heart. If we aren’t self aware, we buy into the bullsh*t that “what our heart wants,” is in no way convoluted by our negative belief system, childhood, un-dealt-with trauma, insecurities, triggers and fears. So what do we do? Approve the investment and go … Continue Reading

HEARTBROKEN ON VALENTINE’S DAY? 3 THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND…

(+ doing a little Valentine’s giveaway for you guys. Details at the end of this post!) The good news: this is the END. The end of the holiday season that highlights being single, heartbroken, feeling insignificant and alone. The bad news: (as if New Years Eve wasn’t hard enough), it ends on the one holiday dedicated to completed … Continue Reading

HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK & START LIVING YOUR LIFE

How to stop caring what people think, is something that I’ve tried to figure out my entire life. Growing up, I’d always fantasize about some day in the future when I bought/became/accomplished/dated x, y & z and THEN, I’d finally get to feel great about myself with no more f*cks to give about what anyone thought. But like … Continue Reading

5 STEPS TO LETTING GO OF THE PAST SO THAT YOU CAN TRUST & LOVE AGAIN

We all want to find love, acceptance, security, meaning, connection & an understanding in our relationships that we can TRUST. For most of my adult life, I carried the burden of a past that had seemingly robbed me of the ability to attract and feel worthy of such an impossibility. The result? Stagnation. I could never evolve because I held onto … Continue Reading

15 LIFE CHANGING DECISIONS TO MAKE FOR 2017 (& BEYOND)

What a year it has been, FULL of life changing decisions. This year was by far, the best year of my life but also the most difficult, painful and challenging. Last New Year’s Eve was a day that I will never forget – it was the worst day of my life (more about what happened here). There … Continue Reading

HOLIDAY BLUES? 3 WAYS TO OVERCOME THE HOPELESSNESS

Holiday blues happen to everyone. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, the holidays have a way of triggering anxiety, stress & the kind of pain contractions that initiate feelings of abandonment, “I’ll-never-get-what-I-want-my-ship-has-sailed” hopelessness, pain from the past, heartbreak & insecurity. This time of year is magical, yet difficult for so many because the holidays are based … Continue Reading