GASLIGHTING IN RELATIONSHIPS: 7 SIGNS + HOW TO PUT OUT THE FLAME

I didn’t even know what gaslighting in relationships meant until recently. Gaslighting is something that I’ve experienced many times in romantic relationships, friendships, familial relationships and in business. I’ve touched on aspects of gaslighting before, but was unfamiliar with the terminology until a few weeks ago when I couldn’t sleep and starting watching the classic … Continue Reading

DATING A NARCISSIST: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

In previous posts, I’ve talked about what narcissism is, signs that indicate you’re dealing with a narcissist and if there’s truly a difference between emotionally unavailables and narcissists. I’ve even talked about my own narcissism, which I still struggle with at times a lot lately. So why am I even taking the time to write about dating a narcissist and what you need … Continue Reading

WHY I USED TO BE A NARCISSIST & WHY YOU MAY BE ONE TOO

This is the last post in a 3-part series of posts on Narcissism. In part 1, we established what a narcissist is, in part 2 we discussed the difference between an emotionally unavailable and a narcissist and now, in part 3… I want to discuss my own narcissism (yes, you heard right) – why I was a … Continue Reading

DOES EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE = NARCISSIST?

For part 2 of my 3-part series on narcissism, I want to explore a question that I’ve gotten asked a lot since posting part 1. It’s a question that I’ve often wondered myself up until my last relationship, which was a PhD-level, mortal combat masterclass in emotional unavailability, f*cktard-ery and narcissism.  EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE So, you’re dating a guy that … Continue Reading

IS HE A NARCISSIST? 20 SIGNS YOU’RE INVOLVED WITH A NARCISSIST

I never knew what being a narcissist even meant until a few years ago. It was right around the time that I learned what being emotionally unavailable and having boundaries meant. Emotional unavailability and boundaries are 2 things that I talk about a lot because once they can be identified, they will undoubtedly transform your life into an … Continue Reading