YOU ARE WHO YOU HANG OUT WITH – WHY WHO HE’S FRIENDS WITH MATTERS

I always thought that sayings like “birds of a feather flock together” and “you are who you hang out with,” were so lame. I had all different kinds of friends that I wasn’t anything like. I also dated guys who were nothing like the overgrown frat bros they hung out with. It didn’t make any … Continue Reading

EMOTIONAL VAMPIRES: HOW TO REPLENISH YOUR EMOTIONAL BLOOD

Emotional vampires are some of the most toxic people you will ever encounter. Most emotional vampires are extremely passive through the way in which they withdraw your emotional blood. Some do it subconsciously. Some narcissistically take advantage and feed off of how validated you feel by them taking the time to zero in on you, find an emotional vein, … Continue Reading

I HAVE NO FRIENDS: WHY THIS ISN’T NECESSARILY A BAD THING

“Why don’t I have any friends?” I’ve said this to myself countless times, even when I had friendships in my life. I felt lonely, misunderstood and never felt like I had a friend that gave or was willing to give and do for me what I would always so willingly give/do at the drop of … Continue Reading

5 STEPS TO GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE

No matter how much it’s rationalized and explained, being friend zoned sucks. And trying to figure out how to get out of the friend zone when you’ve been through it so many times that you’ve acquiesced to the identity of “professional friend,” isn’t worth it because at that point, what’s the point? Figuring out how to get out … Continue Reading