I HAVE NO FRIENDS: WHY THIS ISN’T NECESSARILY A BAD THING

“I have no friends.” I’ve said this to myself countless times, even when I had friendships in my life. I felt lonely, misunderstood and never felt like I had a friend that gave or was willing to give and do for me what I would always so willingly give/do at the drop of a dime. … Continue Reading

HOW TO GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE FOR GOOD IN 5 STEPS

No matter how much it’s rationalized and explained, being friend zoned sucks. And trying to figure out how to get out of the friend zone when you’ve been through it so many times that you’ve acquiesced to the identity of “professional friend,” isn’t worth it because at that point, what’s the point? Figuring out how to get out … Continue Reading

TOXIC FRIENDS? TOXIC FAMILY MEMBERS? WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

I’ve written about toxic people before and I don’t know what it is, but lately I’ve been hearing a lot from my girlfriends, readers and personally experiencing myself the bs, WTF-ness, pain and insanity associated with toxic friends and toxic family members. Once you identify that you have a toxic person in your life and you realize why … Continue Reading

10 WAYS TO OVERCOME GUILT FOR SETTING BOUNDARIES

Before I even knew what boundaries were – up until a few years ago, really – guilt stood in the way of me honoring my own path and my own voice. Guilt murdered my happiness, my self esteem, my self love, my luck and my truth. Having the disease to please didn’t help either. People pleasing and guilt … Continue Reading