COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIPS: WHY WON’T HE OPEN UP?

Having healthy communication in relationships is the foundation for true love, respect, clarity (in regard to where the relationship is going), solidity, trust & emotional safety. If you don’t have healthy communication in relationships (whether they be romantic, familial or friendships), you’re always going to be living in emotional limbo. You’ll feel unsure, misunderstood, insecure and as … Continue Reading

AM I EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE? HOW TO TELL & WHAT TO DO

I’ll never forget how awesome it felt to learn what emotionally unavailable meant. Everything suddenly clicked and started to make perfect sense. After years of unsuccessful, same-result-different-guy dating, I had FINALLY figured out what the reason was: emotionally unavailable men. All I had to do was stop dating emotionally unavailable guys and my Happily Ever After … Continue Reading

IS HE EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE? HERE’S HOW TO KNOW FOR SURE

“Is he emotionally available? & if so, how do I know for sure?” This is a question I get asked a lot and one that I’ve struggled with for years because I kept complicating a natural detection process that was stupid simple. I kept getting in my own way, going over speed bumps at 100mph, and … Continue Reading

DADDY ISSUES: 15 SIGNS YOU MAY HAVE THEM & WHY

Let’s talk Daddy Issues. For a while now, I’ve wanted to post a photo of my parents and title the blog post “A Photo of Everyone I’ve Ever Dated.” I’m not sure about that exact approach, but I’m definitely going to write a post about dating versions of our parents soon because it’s one of … Continue Reading

EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN: WHAT DO THEY DO AFTER A BREAKUP?

Okay, so you’ve figured out what emotionally unavailable means, how to identify emotionally unavailable men and that your ex is emotionally void blah, blah. Let’s be real – you’ve been through a breakup and you’re trying to get over your emotionally unavailable ex. Your heart is breaking and while it totally helps to identify the patterns of emotionally unavailable … Continue Reading

DOES EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE = NARCISSIST?

For part 2 of my 3-part series on narcissism, I want to explore a question that I’ve gotten asked a lot since posting part 1. It’s a question that I’ve often wondered myself up until my last relationship, which was a PhD-level, mortal combat masterclass in emotional unavailability, f*cktard-ery and narcissism.  EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE So, you’re dating a guy that … Continue Reading