COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIPS: WHY WON’T HE OPEN UP?

Having healthy communication in relationships is the foundation for true love, respect, clarity (in regard to where the relationship is going), solidity, trust & emotional safety. If you don’t have healthy communication in relationships (whether they be romantic, familial or friendships), you’re always going to be living in emotional limbo. You’ll feel unsure, misunderstood, insecure and as … Continue Reading

HOW TO STOP STALKING YOUR EX (& EVERYONE RELATED TO HIM)

I’ve been avoiding having to write about how to stop stalking your ex, but I’ve gotten so many requests to write about it, I had to. So here I am, finally doing it. Why didn’t I want to write about how to stop stalking your ex? Because my answer to the “how to stop stalking your ex” question, is … Continue Reading

HOW TO ATTRACT MEN: THE ONLY THING YOU NEED TO KNOW

No matter where I am in the world, the number one question I get asked always boils down to how to attract men; healthy, soul-mate-status relationships and friendships. My “I’ll never be good enough” pain, disease to please and lack of love for myself used to be so bad, I felt completely hopeless and alone. I was never understood or appreciated, always … Continue Reading

SOCIOPATH SYMPTOMS: 5 SIGNS YOU’RE DATING A SOCIOPATH

I’ve written about emotional unavailability and narcissism, but there’s a certain species out there that I haven’t yet discussed. In many ways, this species is embedded in and yet completely independent of the other two. These are people that you may think you know very well. You may be dating one, friends with one, working with or … Continue Reading

PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE: ARE YOU? IS HE? HERE’S WHAT TO DO

Just like emotional unavailability and narcissism, once you understand what passive aggressive behavior means, how to spot it, how to identify it within yourself and how to go on a permanent passive aggressive diet, it’s a total game changer. Your life gets easier, you put an end to the bs, an end to the pain … Continue Reading

IS HE EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE? HERE’S HOW TO KNOW FOR SURE

“Is he emotionally available? & if so, how do I know for sure?” This is a question I get asked a lot and one that I’ve struggled with for years because I kept complicating a natural detection process that was stupid simple. I kept getting in my own way, going over speed bumps at 100mph, and … Continue Reading