WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU FALL OFF THE WHITE HORSE & BREAK NO CONTACT

I will never be able to reiterate enough times the importance, benefit, and impact of knowing exactly what to do in your most painful, desperate, angry and triggered moments: Stay on your white horse. As I wrote in a past post: “ALWAYS stay on your white horse. If you ever want anyone who hurt and … Continue Reading

HOW TO GET HIM TO COMMIT TO A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP

Commitment is a funny thing. We allow our desire for it and other people’s promises of it, to blind and paralyze us from seeing and acting upon red/pink flags that are often, right in front of our face from the get-go. “How to get him to commit to a serious relationship,” is something I’ve Googled … Continue Reading

HOW TO STOP HATING YOURSELF – ESPECIALLY AFTER A BREAKUP

“How To Stop HATING Yourself…” Whoa. Slow down. The title of this post sounds harsh to me no matter how many times I read it. We grow up being told how hate is this strong, destructive, can’t-take-back, divisive and all-around wrong emotion to carry and channel toward others. The devastating, “need-not-engage-in” consequences of hate, however, … Continue Reading

NO CONTACT RULE: HOW TO MAKE IT 1000 TIMES EASIER & MORE EFFECTIVE

The no contact rule is something that we’re all familiar with post-breakup. I hate referring to it as a “rule,” because it just adds to this stigma of feeling more like a formulaic prison sentence that has to be applied for some desired “result,” rather than what it truly is: Something that anyone with a … Continue Reading