DO I HAVE ABANDONMENT ISSUES? HOW TO KNOW + WHAT TO DO

I’ve struggled HARD and still, to this day, struggle with abandonment issues. Just like with emotional unavailability, narcissism, gas lighting, empathetic bankruptcy, codependency, etc…. When you understand what abandonment issues are, you’re then able to identify if you have them and/or if someone that you’re in a relationship with has them. And just like that… … Continue Reading

WHAT TO DO WHEN TRUST IS BROKEN IN A RELATIONSHIP

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about deception, the conflicting feelings associated with being lied to and how when trust is broken in a relationship, although it’s totally not okay…  Is it EVER repairable?  Trust is the foundation for every solid, healthy, mutual and enviable relationship out there. And it’s taken me so much time, heartbreak, … Continue Reading

ALMOST RELATIONSHIPS: WHAT THEY MEAN & HOW TO LET GO

As I write this post, I’m on my couch and it’s currently 1999. I’ve got Brandy’s, Almost Doesn’t Count playing throughout my house, I’m wearing my old Abercrombie sweatpants and an ex boyfriend’s old high school sweatshirt that I found in my closet. All that’s missing is a Capri Sun instead of my mint tea. I wanted to write … Continue Reading

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS: WHY MOST OF MY RELATIONSHIPS HAVE BEEN LONG DISTANCE

Long distance relationships are hard, but they’re also exhilarating, passionate and are an integral part of a fairy tale that we’re convinced, HAS TO be right around the corner. All of the greatest love stories, movies, books and poems involve distance at some point. And it’s always in that distance that emotional wrongs are righted and necessary realizations … Continue Reading