ARE THERE ANY GOOD GUYS LEFT? HOW DO YOU FIND ONE?

Even though you may be like I used to be and live as the unnecessary, “could-really-do-without-her,” character in the story that is your life, you are always the only main, recurring character in your story as the supporting characters and guest stars come and go. You’re the main character that will be in every scene … Continue Reading

IS HE REALLY “JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU?” OR EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE? OR BOTH?

Have you ever started talking to a guy that seems like he’s super into you and you feel like you have the upper hand and you’re happy but ‘taking it slow,’ and you’re kind of lukewarm, “whatever” about him until one day, you get a little vulnerable, realize that you’re actually SUPER into him and then all … Continue Reading

HIS WORDS, DECODED

I’ve heard so many lines, so many excuses and so many honest assertions that were tailor-made for my non-boundaried younger self over the years and coupled with all of your amazing emails asking me to translate “what he means when he says… x,y & z,” I could write a never-ending coffee table book at this … Continue Reading

WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE MORE INTERESTED IN HIM THAN HE IS IN YOU

Years ago, during my last year of college, I was working a part-time job, going to school, going out, eating everything in sight around the clock, never working out, sleeping 4 hours a night, texting guys from 3 different universities and 7 different frats at once – basically just living the dream.