COPING SKILLS, DILEMMAS DECODED & BEING ALONE: HOLIDAY EDITION

I have this thing with organization. Not in an over the top, obtrusive and annoying way, but in a “this-is-how-I-maintain-sanity,” kind of way. I understand that my allergy to bullsh*t and clutter is my thing, so I never try to impose it on anyone else. It’s just how I personally like to roll. I’m a … Continue Reading

WHAT MAKES A RELATIONSHIP LAST? GET THE 1 THING HERE.

Relationship advice … Where do you even begin?   Especially when it comes to “What Makes a Relationship Last?” I want to start off by saying that for me, this is one of the most meaningful and exposing posts I’ve ever written. It’s long, but I share a lot of myself, my mistakes, and the ways … Continue Reading

DO I HAVE ABANDONMENT ISSUES?

I’ve struggled HARD and still, to this day, struggle with abandonment issues. Just like with emotional unavailability, narcissism, gaslighting, empathetic bankruptcy, codependency, etc…. When you understand what abandonment issues are, you’re then able to identify if you have them and/or if someone that you’re in a relationship with has them. And just like that… ALL … Continue Reading

HOW TO STOP SEEKING VALIDATION & LIVE LIFE ON YOUR TERMS

I cringe when I think about the amount of time I’ve wasted in my life, obsessing and humiliating myself on an endless quest for validation. Trying to figure out how to stop seeking validation was always impossible because at every moment, there was someone who I was convinced – if I just worked a little harder and gave … Continue Reading