RELATIONSHIP ADVICE: THE #1 THING THAT MAKES RELATIONSHIPS LAST

Relationship advice… Where do you even begin?  I want to start off by saying that for me, this is one of the most meaningful and exposing posts I’ve ever written. It’s long, but I share a lot of myself, my mistakes, and the ways in which I was able to transform my relational life and … Continue Reading

DO I HAVE ABANDONMENT ISSUES? HOW TO KNOW + WHAT TO DO

I’ve struggled HARD and still, to this day, struggle with abandonment issues. Just like with emotional unavailability, narcissism, gas lighting, empathetic bankruptcy, codependency, etc…. When you understand what abandonment issues are, you’re then able to identify if you have them and/or if someone that you’re in a relationship with has them. And just like that… … Continue Reading

HOW TO STOP SEEKING VALIDATION & LIVE LIFE ON YOUR TERMS

I cringe when I think about the amount of time I’ve wasted in my life, obsessing and humiliating myself on an endless quest for validation. Trying to figure out how to stop seeking validation was always impossible because at every moment, there was someone who I was convinced – if I just worked a little harder and gave … Continue Reading

GASLIGHTING IN RELATIONSHIPS: 7 SIGNS + HOW TO PUT OUT THE FLAME

I didn’t even know what gaslighting in relationships meant until recently. Gaslighting is something that I’ve experienced many times in romantic relationships, friendships, familial relationships and in business. I’ve touched on aspects of gaslighting before, but was unfamiliar with the terminology until a few weeks ago when I couldn’t sleep and starting watching the classic … Continue Reading