WHEN YOU SEE YOUR EX: HOW TO NOT LET IT UNRAVEL YOU

So many cultures celebrate holidays, traditions and festivities around the spring equinox – Easter, Holi, Passover, Norooz (the Persian New Year), Hanami (the blossoming of cherry trees in Japan), etc. – Why? Spring is the season of new beginnings. It’s the time of year when everything is in bloom. Animals awaken, the conditions are ideal and everything … Continue Reading

WHY DO I MISS HIM? THE ONE THING YOU NEED TO KNOW

“Why do I miss him?” is something that I’ve continued to ask myself WAY after relationsh*ts have ended and breakups ensued. I’d even find myself wondering “why do I miss him (??!)” when I’d be on a date – sitting across from a totally nice guy in a beautiful restaurant; my mind thousands of miles … Continue Reading

HOW TO STOP MISSING SOMEONE WHEN YOU’RE HEARTBROKEN

How to stop missing someone is one of those subjects that I’ve tried to avoid writing about, just because of the sheer impossibility of it. ALL I want to do is help people out of pain, suffering, self sabotage and patterns that I know all too well. So, how could I reduce to a light switch, the kind of pain and … Continue Reading

WHAT TO DO AFTER A BREAKUP

Whether it’s a romantic relationship or a friendship, breakups distort our vision. It’s not that we don’t know what to do after a breakup, it’s that we can’t see.  Think about it this way… You know how to drive a car, right? right. So let’s just say that you’ve been driving in desirable conditions for a while – great weather, no … Continue Reading

HOW TO STOP STALKING YOUR EX (& EVERYONE RELATED TO HIM)

I’ve been avoiding having to write about how to stop stalking your ex, but I’ve gotten so many requests to write about it, I had to. So here I am, finally doing it. Why didn’t I want to write about how to stop stalking your ex? Because my answer to the “how to stop stalking your ex” question, is … Continue Reading

HOW TO LET HIM GO: GET OVER THE PAIN OF LOSING YOUR EX TODAY

It may have been a total relationsh*t and yeah, he was empathetically bankrupt and emotionally unavailable, but who doesn’t have issues? You were the happiest that you had ever been. He made you feel like no one ever had and you know that you’ll never find it again. You literally had everything – you had your person, … Continue Reading