LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS: WHY MOST OF MY RELATIONSHIPS HAVE BEEN LONG DISTANCE

Long distance relationships are hard, but they’re also exhilarating, passionate and are an integral part of a fairy tale that we’re convinced, HAS TO be right around the corner. All of the greatest love stories, movies, books and poems involve distance at some point. And it’s always in that distance that emotional wrongs are righted and necessary realizations … Continue Reading

WHEN YOU SEE YOUR EX: HOW TO NOT LET IT UNRAVEL YOU

So many cultures celebrate holidays, traditions and festivities around the spring equinox – Easter, Holi, Passover, Norooz (the Persian New Year), Hanami (the blossoming of cherry trees in Japan), etc. – Why? Spring is the season of new beginnings. It’s the time of year when everything is in bloom. Animals awaken, the conditions are ideal and everything … Continue Reading

WHY DO I MISS HIM? THE ONE THING YOU NEED TO KNOW

“Why do I miss him?” is something that I’ve continued to ask myself WAY after relationsh*ts have ended and breakups ensued. I’d even find myself wondering “why do I miss him (??!)” when I’d be on a date – sitting across from a totally nice guy in a beautiful restaurant; my mind thousands of miles … Continue Reading

SELF SABOTAGE IN RELATIONSHIPS & LIFE: 3 WAYS TO END IT NOW

+ (doing a little giveaway! details at the end of this post xx) Self sabotage is the one thing that will destroy your chances of ever fully experiencing the relationships, luck, confidence, fulfillment, happiness, success and life that you want more than anything. Self love and self sabotage can never coexist. If you self sabotage, it means that you embody the … Continue Reading

MAKING AN EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT: WHEN TO INVEST & WHEN TO FOLD

Emotional investment seems like the most no-brainer, autopilot investment because it comes from the heart. If we aren’t self aware, we buy into the bullsh*t that “what our heart wants,” is in no way convoluted by our negative belief system, childhood, un-dealt-with trauma, insecurities, triggers and fears. So what do we do? Approve the investment and go … Continue Reading

HOW TO STOP MISSING SOMEONE WHEN YOU’RE HEARTBROKEN

How to stop missing someone is one of those subjects that I’ve tried to avoid writing about, just because of the sheer impossibility of it. ALL I want to do is help people out of pain, suffering, self sabotage and patterns that I know all too well. So, how could I reduce to a light switch, the kind of pain and … Continue Reading