HOW TO OVERCOME JEALOUSY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS & LIFE

+ * the PMS Holiday GIVEAWAY WINNERS are announced at the bottom of this post – !! Jealousy isn’t something that I need to go into any kind of depth describing. It’s an old and familiar club that we are lifetime, VIP members of whether we like it or not. It’s something that we have … Continue Reading

COPING SKILLS, DILEMMAS DECODED & BEING ALONE: HOLIDAY EDITION

I have this thing with organization. Not in an over the top, obtrusive and annoying way, but in a “this-is-how-I-maintain-sanity,” kind of way. I understand that my allergy to bullsh*t and clutter is my thing, so I never try to impose it on anyone else. It’s just how I personally like to roll. I’m a … Continue Reading

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU FALL OFF THE WHITE HORSE & BREAK NO CONTACT

I will never be able to reiterate enough times the importance, benefit, and impact of knowing exactly what to do in your most painful, desperate, angry and triggered moments: Stay on your white horse. As I wrote in a past post: “ALWAYS stay on your white horse. If you ever want anyone who hurt and … Continue Reading

GRATITUDE: 20 THINGS TO BE GRATEFUL FOR DESPITE HEARTBREAK

Fear, resent, hopelessness, anger, insecurity, jealousy, comparison, obsessing, stalking, an inability to let go, low self esteem, and reverse narcissism… All of these things nearly robbed me of a life. The only thing that murdered the extent to which these destructive emotions/actions dictated my decisions, relationships, and destiny? Gratitude.  It’s not that I no longer feel those emotions or … Continue Reading