A VALENTINE’S DAY NOTE FROM ME TO YOU

Valentine’s Day is exciting because it marks the last of the “damn-it-sucks-to-be-single” / “damn-it-sucks-to-be-in-a-drama-filled-mind-f*cking-relationsh*t” / “damn-it-sucks-to-miss-him-this-much-STILL-and-not-get-to-be-with-him-or-know-what-he’s-doing-today,” holidays that seem to highlight all the stuff that’s missing, messed up and depressing in our lives. I’ve had so many drowning-in-my-sorrow, lonely Valentine’s Days because to me Valentine’s meant romance. If I was single – “GALentines” snoozer which included gossip/drama/calories I didn’t … Continue Reading

WHAT TO DO WHEN THE HEARTBREAK SEEMS LIKE IT WILL NEVER END

Sometimes I catch myself trying to believe that I’m not really scared, sad, hurt, insecure, etc. It never works. Every one of our feelings are valid, even the ones we don’t want to feel. Feel your heartbreak, feel your pain and own it because it is yours. Being an under the rug brusher unplugs you … Continue Reading